Valentine's day is here, and I won't want to say; this is the time to
celebrate love cos your love is worth celebrating everyday. But let’s make February
14th unique. I pray God bring blessings, peace and joy to your home and make
it last forever! I know He will. You're concerned about your partner that’s why
you’re out to know what you can do to make them happy. That's a good move you've made, cos your love is sweater
than honey, fresher than water from the purest pool, more
precious than golden egg if ever there was any, she's / he's the reason why you smile genuinely
from the bottom of your heart. As you read, the first person that’s comes
to your mind is your true love and she / he is worth nurturing cos he / she
makes you feel awesome, makes you feel special and important, makes everything
looks anew, she / he is the one you’d spend two hours with and it looks like you've barely spent 5 minutes, she’s / he's the one that will crack the poorest
joke yet it makes you laugh and you don’t wanna stop. Valentine's day is here, and we are out to make a
difference.
I know you're not William Shakespeare, but that'd be why your lady would appreciate your effort more. Write your lady a poem, tell her how much she means to you. How she makes you feel, what you think she is to you. For once, express your feeling from what you feel and not what you red online or other sources... Look into your heart and ask yourself some questions; How much does you lady mean to you, what do you think will happen if ever you lose her, how do you miss her if you are not together, what you like about her, why she makes you go gaga, write them all down plus whatever she does that sweetens you, the way she talks, the way she looks at you... what?! Outline all of them. Even if you didn't present this in a professional way, she’d be happy to know how you feel about her and how much she means to you. After writing your poem look for a perfect time and place. With you holding her hands and looking into her eyes, hold the piece if you can’t quote it out, no worries, bring it out tell her what you want to read to her. No rush, do your thing quietly, slow but steady. If you’re at home, what ever comes after is between you both. J
What You Can do for Your Lady on Valentine's Day.
1) Write her a poem
I know you're not William Shakespeare, but that'd be why your lady would appreciate your effort more. Write your lady a poem, tell her how much she means to you. How she makes you feel, what you think she is to you. For once, express your feeling from what you feel and not what you red online or other sources... Look into your heart and ask yourself some questions; How much does you lady mean to you, what do you think will happen if ever you lose her, how do you miss her if you are not together, what you like about her, why she makes you go gaga, write them all down plus whatever she does that sweetens you, the way she talks, the way she looks at you... what?! Outline all of them. Even if you didn't present this in a professional way, she’d be happy to know how you feel about her and how much she means to you. After writing your poem look for a perfect time and place. With you holding her hands and looking into her eyes, hold the piece if you can’t quote it out, no worries, bring it out tell her what you want to read to her. No rush, do your thing quietly, slow but steady. If you’re at home, what ever comes after is between you both. J
Telling your lady how you feel about her wont cost you a thing, but
then you build trust, you build faith, you build her confidence which is
super important... VERY IMPORTANT, you make her happy and on the other hand you'd be happy. I wont be the one to tell you that staying around happy people
makes you happy. Making your lady happy makes you happy and this builds a happy home.
2) Take her for a shopping
Shopping is fun, People likes seeing new things, owning them. Take
you woman out for a little or bulky shopping.
3) Go places
Yes sure! you've got to go places. It wont be complete if you don't go out on a date or picnic. Wherever you have in mind is okay, whether classy or not. what's important is; you're together. Think! Where do you always like to be, take your lady there. It may be, a resort, a beach, a spa, a restaurant, cinemas, some love nest...
Things You Can do for Your Man on Valentine's Day
Buy Stuff for them
Buy anything cool for your man, things like; a wrist watch, a necktie or anything good that comes into your mind. Men appreciate gifts from their ladies a lot no matter how small they are proud of it and likes showing it to their friends.Do your thing
You definitely know what your man loves than me, do it to him and in style. You know how to treat your man right, don't hold back go give it to him.Life after valentine
There’s life after valentine, remember I said everyday is
the time to celebrate your love. Things you may do after valentine's day.
1) There are several things you can do here, the first I’ll
recommend is address your partner by their names and coupled it with names like sweetie, dear, what have you? For example; Emmanuel dear… It also okay to
address your partner as sweetie, darling, queen, dear (not “My dear” – I think
has gone hackneyed. lol)
2) Tell your love,
your every move and your plans. See example; “Baby after work tomorrow, we’ll be having a
brief meeting which will take up to 30 minutes. So I’ll be coming home 30 minutes
late or may be a little longer”.
3) When you’re at
work, or not with her, you can text or call her even if there’s nothing to talk
about - That would be the best time to call her; In love there’s no palaver. Calling
when you actually don’t have anything to say makes it clear that your love is
always on your mind. See example; Hi baby girl, how are you doing over there?
Hope my baby is doing just fine, I am missing u, I miss your kiss and touch, I miss
seeing you smile… I called to hear you voice, I called to check on you, I called to know how you're doing... what have you?
4) Pick falling stuff
– I recommend this for guys only, I do it believe me. When something falls from
your lady, its ok to help her pick it up. Do you have too much pride or
prestige and can’t do that? Well I think your lady deserves it. Doing this has several benefits; apart from the fact that this makes your woman feel respected, she'd love you more, it'll make her respect you more, gets her heart clued to you, she'd be stuck on you, she'd do anything to protect you or make
you happy, if your baby’s happiness makes you happy, I bet you’ll be always happy, I challenge you to do this, even if you’re a president with thugs on your back
and sides and your woman fell something don’t wait for your thugs to pick the
stuff up, you can do it yourself. Let thugs serve you but you should serve your lady. You might
be a president but to your lady you are you. It is only with your lady that you
feel at home. Doing this will surely make you
an icon and people will talk and write about you, you’d be loved by
people around you and the general public and most especially your woman.
5) When you have the
time, join her in kitchen I learnt love in the kitchen is more romantic! lol. Do
things with her always, you both don’t have to be far from each other, If you're not together then you should be chatting or on a call. When ever
you’re with your lady always look straight into her eyes, this brings great attraction and makes things happen faster. ;)
6) Listen to her -
This is to the guys too, I discovered that ladies talks a lot. lol. Listening is
perhaps one of the most difficult thing to do but always listen to your lady even if you’re not interested in
what she's saying you just have to give her that time. Don’t listen with
you backing her. Ladies also do the same.
7) Don’t shout - Do
you think the best way to approach what’s important to you is by shouting? Well
I don’t think so. You should talk to your lady quietly about it. “Baby in respect of the other time, I know you didn't want to hurt or get me angry but the thing you did the other time pained me”. Brief! and everyone's happy.
Finale
Take this from me, I am not a relationship consultant. I’m a
young man who try to be myself - I mean rational. I've gotten into only a few relationships but I have never went into a relationship and my lady didn't love me like hell!
I make a woman feel like she’s a woman. More appropriately, like a queen, a first lady... You
too can - whether a man or woman. The opinion (these are certainly not facts) I
gave are surely not all there is to make your relationship be at its peak
whether new or old, but this can make every passing day look like a honeymoon. If you’re
old you’d feel young as though you were really young. I’d be glad you hear what you
have in mind on the comments. Kindly follow me on Twitter (@worldwebsurfers)
and on Google +. Regards: WorldWebSurfers.com
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